Scott L. Ballering:  

Read notes also” Me I am just looking for my female (wife) partner to live life with, here NO (between the farmers & paper the water is very polluted plus very few jobs and the state politicians are really screwing up WI. Everything is now becoming VIRTUAL education, jobs, economy, etc.. software solves EVERYTHING to bad you need HARDWARE to run it on. where the mountain states away from the pollution of mankind maybe New Zealand or Hawaii or countless others because mankind is contracting. Away from stupidity and the latest buzzword or phrase the highly educated intelligent people dream up but if you’re not in the inner circle you’re the outsider desperately seeking to be with STAN the MAN (revenge of the nerds). Yes popular negative energy, the social elite that never are truly happy unlike the converted BETTY. If you want to reach out slballering56 you need only outlook at your favorite dot com. Now on instagram also, just have love social media lol. I am still 5’6”, body inseam of 31”, 60” to my mouth, 62 my eyes (as measured in bare feet on a hard surface floor and you can do it yourself using a retractable metal tape measure), still have a vasectomy and the funds for us to live a great life. I wish I could say if you send me yourself thru the mail I would get it but the postal workers that deliver my mail still refuse to do so. It’s been going on since Oct of 23. Height matters as we stand you in front of me, my arms around you and your arms pulling me closer to your body as we stare at a gorgeous waterfall together. It’s sharing special moments together, or kissing while cooking together we just match, or in the shower or taking a relaxing jetted bath together. It’s being able to see and experience the same things from the same vantage point. It’s about becoming a couple that just fits together in just about every aspect. It’s about our 5 languages of love, our bodies, emotions, beliefs just make being together this effortless relationship that just feels so intimate, intense, sensual, peaceful that we both want and need nothing more than we have together. It is the Nexus or Insurrection from Star Trek Next Generation. Yes I am still a small framed person my frame type Ectomorph or Endomorph (you decide) so we fit together. I’m an INTJ/INTP person (they say about 3% of the population are). The odd thing about me as an INTJ is I base most decisions/actions off of what I’ve gathered and recorded in my head. If something disagrees with my core belief (my internal beliefs) I will challenge you to explain in understandable terms so either I find a new truth or accept to agree to disagree. I also take the other side often to test if you have seen both sides and I understand what you’re trying to communicate. The art and desire for all forms of communication seem to be void in humanity but again maybe they already were but now it seems more noticeable. I told both my daughters some day you’ll say “Dad you’re right I don’t know everything” I said it my father on our drive home from Bootcamp. My father’s response, nothing but I did appreciate him coming to get me. “Cats in the cradle” by Jim Croce come to mind but I tried breaking that mold but not sure I succeeded. Big families never experienced it, it’s a bit overwhelming in my book. My 5 languages of love are 9- Quality Time, 9- Physical Touch, 9- Acts of Service and 3 Words of Affirmations you can take the test as well, just take it multiple times to find the true languages for you. Personally I see myself as a cusp Aquarian & Pisces (logical and emotional) if you follow zodiac look at demons & angels also it’s been said some will sell their soul for a passionate love life, for me I also find myself as a blend of all signs to some degree depending on the specific point. They say we travel at high speeds straddling both sides of life (the fence logic & emotion) thus being an internal thinker has much merit. It’s the unexpected turns that get others because slowing down for the turns in life just isn’t as much fun as taking them at cruising speed. Speed of thought. I’ve been misunderstood all my life many say you need to be more serious and then at the same time same point in a conversation say you should lighten up, welcome to being a cusp and a realist. Many say ME, I’m a half glass full, others half empty, for me I already know it always FULL. Full of air and water, the real question is it at the correct levels of the two, if not then change it and move on. Yes the other thing people think wow you’re cocky but I’m really not just seeking knowledge so I can better understand what you’re thinking. It’s also partially due to being a W2 worker and previous business owner/manager. I use applied kinesiology (AK) (not the pyramid method as used in other parts of the world & it can not tell the future) daily, testing compatibility with substances that come in contact with me and I them, that is all AK is, it cures nothing but assists in preventing making things worse thus is helping me get younger and healthier and I can teach you how to also. Into alternative medicine, detoxifying by reducing negative toxic influences in and on my being (more natural health care and living), a spatial, visual thinker & learner plus audio (may be why I love New Age, progressive rock, jazz, classical (I’d love to go a symphony at least once) and others, less so Drama country western/tons of Lyrics) all though if the music comes through and the lyrics add depth great. Trees by Rush, Lift ME Up by YES and Moody Blues, Bluegrass, etc. Music you feel the energy of, it surrounds and pierces your soul filling your body with joy, happiness, harmony, tranquility while being emotionally invigorating. Sounds that lift one’s spirits to new heights. Music like visual art should just be appreciated without names & titles getting in the way. > Rock percussion > Trees string instruments > Water piano instruments > Sun & Wind likes all Just ask them next time Ever wonder who you are truly biologically, physically, mentally and emotionally compatible with along with if we’re intimately compatible and safe to be together before being together, we can also test for that remotely and in person, I wrote about in Applied Kinesiology the Age of Truth, not that we do not have to continue to work at the relationship but it may just be more effortless than others you have been in. We just change in small ways to bring ourselves and partner more joy than stress. When things may seem a tad boring we just take action thinking of ways to bring variety in without bring in outside things and people into our relationship, not waiting for the other person take action. Are you up to stepping out on the invisible bridge like in Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade but already know it’s real? The thing I have learned over the years is women (and men) want the security feeling of not being dependent on their partner (financially mostly) but dread the notion they actually need and want their partner more than anything without conditions. So while it seems a less emotional way when starting a relationship is put in writing what the terms and conditions, financial, living arrangements, intimacy expectations, if it doesn’t work out what the exit agreement is, who owns what over time. It protects both of us and then reinforces that our relationship is a physical, mental and emotional bonding relationship and that removes the stress and negative emotions in the future if things go wrong. It greatly reduces the likelihood of arguing over a misunderstanding all because my or your perception of a situation is altered. Example my first wife and I agreed on how to raise our daughters. I would come home after a work trip say hi to my daughters but also catch them doing something wrong. I’d say something and unknowingly cause an issue. I talked to now ex and would say what’s going on, when I left I told them to stop doing XX. Why are you not enforcing the rules, she’d say because I don’t want to be the bad guy so I decided to change the rules. I called just about every night and she never told me a thing. In the end I finally just keep my mouth shut, why because communications is key to being successful and happy in a relationship and we just were not going to be on the same page anymore. Put another way many say finding one’s partner is like finding a needle in a haystack, for me that isn’t even accurate. See a metal needle doesn’t belong in a stack of HAY so just use a strong magnetic and there’s the needle (besides we don’t want to get stuck while rolling around in the hay lol) but finding the matching piece of broken off HAY that we match together is the ultimate goal. Does that mean it has to be a perfect match maybe not but again that’s where AK comes in for those that dare to risk it all. Even the broken ends change over time when apart thus is it a perfect match depending on the definition of PERFECT. Difference in experiences just means that you or I have different experiences but since we have never been together our experiences will be new for both as long as we each leave our pasts in the past but use our experiences to create a new life of new/modified experiences to grow together from. How many times have you said or heard “we are compatible on so many levels” and 6 months or years later they say wow was I wrong? Lol freely giving ourselves to our partners is the key, just like the first true love we thought was true love but this time you both actually do it without hesitation or reservation regardless of what the outsiders say or think or the perceptions from outside influences acquired. The rewards to pure happiness lie within us all, we just need to be true to ourselves. I was driving one time along the Columbia River and saw a B&W image for about 3 seconds (fortunately or unfortunately I see a lot of them driving, walking, h...Expand for more